Wednesday, December 15, 2021

 December 15, 2021


Thanks to the past weekend having been spent with three of our four great-grandchildren here for a sleepover, our Christmas tree is up and decorated.

It’s not a real tree that you’ll find here in our house. Our daughter developed an allergy to the real thing when she was a young teen. (She can’t even have one of those classic pine-tree air fresheners in her car.) The tree we have now we purchased a few years back, the December following the “great attic clean-up caper” that David and the girls staged one spring. This was back before our daughter moved in with us. It was a very well-organized effort, needed because over the last many years prior to that noble effort, they both—our girls, that is—liked to bring things here to “store”. That’s all well and good and we are always happy to help them—until the space runs out. So, they planned a mass clean-out of what was no longer needed/wanted.  We’d ordered a huge bin, and the three of them, working together, did a good job “cleaning up” the attic. The good news is, that there was a lot of space created and unwanted stuff gotten rid of.

Unfortunately, they tossed our Christmas tree out in error. Our daughter had mistaken our tree for her tree, which she had thought she had stored here. And during that great attic clean up she had decided, for whatever reason, that she no longer wanted it. There were a couple of other items in that clean up that we lost as well, including a small metal table that I had purchased to use when I needed to sort out my paperwork during tax prep season. The table had been bought the fall before, and it hadn’t cost much, but it had worked perfectly.

The tree we have now isn’t very tall—only about five foot high. Because I like that tree, the year after we acquired it I went out and purchased some miniature-sized decorations for it. We have lights, garland, and hanging ornaments. With small dogs in the house, we don’t bother with the tinsel or anything else that might end up going through a dog’s digestive track. The tree is pretty, and the little ones did a good job of hanging the tiny ornaments.

The snow that I wrote about a couple of weeks back melted, and then we got more snow. It, too, melted over this last weekend. On Monday, as I peeked around the corners of my computer monitor to see outside, I was greeted by bright sunshine, bare trees, and green lawns, mostly raked of leaves. I was blessed to see the exact same sight again yesterday, as well. I don’t know if this is real, or just perception, but it seems to me that two straight days of sunshine and blue skies lately is a rarity.  I tend to think its more the former than the latter, since we’re at the time of year when two lines have been added to the daily forecast screen at the weather network web site: expected snowfall and expected hours of sunshine. It looked so pretty outside Monday and yesterday. If it weren’t for the fact that it was only just a couple of degrees above the freezing mark, I might have been tempted to go and sit on the porch for a bit. The forecast for today tells me to expect 0 hours of sunshine, and possibly some rain. Since the skies are now grey and the street is wet, I’d say that’s an accurate report.

Because our local government will not collect yard waste again until the spring, one is left trying to decide what’s best: letting the leaves that are still there on the lawn right now stay there, to be covered by the snow that is sure to come again any day now; or does one rake, and bag, and then store those full bags of leaves in the outside storage spaces until spring?

Friends, that is a dilemma with which my beloved husband has been wrestling over the last couple of weeks. Or one that he says he is wrestling with. I think the truth is, he just doesn’t want to take the chance that any stored bags will somehow get wet, thus beginning their decomposition cycle. So, he really is counting on the snow to arrive soon and hide the unsightly brown, somewhat rotting former foliage from view.

My daughter is going to take me Christmas shopping in the coming week, so I can get something for the smallest two of our great-grandchildren. At two-and-a-half and three-and-a-half, they much prefer getting something to open on Christmas morning, and who can blame them for that?

The older two of our great-grandchildren look forward to shopping trips with their “nanny” where they can choose their own gifts. And, of course, there’s the plus for them that the after-Christmas sales mean they can get far more than they otherwise would have with the money gifted. And yes, at the age of eight, the oldest of the two can reason that out.

I know it’s lazy on our part, but we pretty much gift money to the rest of our family—kids and grandkids alike. It is lazy, but it is also the gift that always fits and never has to be returned due to a flaw in the manufacturing. That makes it a win-win for two older people who really don’t like shopping.

 

Love,

Morgan

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