Wednesday, January 7, 2026

January...

 January 7, 2026

For many of us, the holiday season has come to a close for another year. For some, this week of getting back into the routine of living is welcome relief. I know that everyone in this house is grateful for the “pieces of quiet” that are now ours—for the most part.

Of course, the dogs are still barking and the unplanned and inconvenient will still happen. Such is life. But if one is unused to large gatherings and lots of noise and activity, then one is grateful for the afterwards. The good thing is that the noisier and more chaotic those few days of celebrations were, the more calming seems this return to the “boring norm”.

It was a lively and fun season for us. We got to see all but three of our grandchildren – and when I use that word it includes our “in-law” grands—we have two granddaughters-in-law. One of our granddaughters and her wife are now in another province. This makes getting together en masse very challenging and thus rare. The one grandson we didn’t get to see, we’d hosted the month before for a few days. He couldn’t make it here during Yule and again, that’s just life.

So far, the winter of 25-26 appears to be what I would call a more traditional winter. This is the first year in a few that the snow that fell in early November has remained in place without melting. The cold has been pretty solid, too, not deviating much except to the degree of cold we get to enjoy—alternating between bone-chilling and bone-shattering.

I checked the weather for the next few days. To go along with the theme of “traditional winter” it appears that we are about to have a true January thaw. The temperature is slated to hit 50 on Friday. And because it has been pretty solidly cold since early November, I’m thinking that 50 is going to feel like a 70 in early spring.

In case y’all have forgotten what a “traditional winter” entails, after the January thaw there should be another deep dive into the world of sub-zero temperatures by next week. And it’s possible that this plunge will last the entire month of February.

This is the reason, I believe, that February is the shortest month. My father, I’ve been told, used to refer to the second month of the year with a prefix that was a hyphenated epithet. But I digress.

It’s generally in February that I go into semi-hibernation mode. I hunker down, because for me this time of year—when nature is getting ready to hold its nose and dive deep into the sub-zeroes—is a time of year to be survived, period.

I really don’t mind hunkering down. I have my writing, and there are always books to read. There can be nice, quiet afternoons spent in comfort heaven, with a heating pad, a warm blanket, and a much-loved recliner. Sometimes I put music on my television, as a just-able-to-hear background sound. Cap it all off with a nice cup of decaf, and I’m good.

I suppose that’s all part of the grand plan, when you think about it. Nature herself tends to have a period of dormancy, a time to rest, to prepare for the growing season to come. Many of her wild critters do the same.

So keep warm, my friends. And after the hustle and bustle of the last few weeks, make sure you take time for yourself. If you can’t hunker or hibernate, at lease schedule some quality self-care time. Pamper yourself.

You deserve it!

 

Love,

Morgan

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