Wednesday, September 25, 2024

Those rare moments...

 September 25, 2024

Last night, after our customary couple of hours of television viewing was done, as usual, we separated and moved on to our computers. David’s is in the living room, in a corner where he’s made himself an office. Mine, is in my actual office. One door and about fifteen steps separate us.

This is a routine that is so us. We’ve never had to live in each other’s pockets, as it were.

We’ve developed a good rhythm that suits us both since he retired nearly seven years ago. Throughout the day, we can be found most often, each of us at our keyboards. I spend my mornings at mine, working on my writing—or trying to. Focus is sometimes a problem for me lately, and I have no idea why that is. But I do my best, between when I finish my devotionals—along with most of my first and only fully caffeinated coffee of the day—and that moment when I know I must go into the living room and get my legs up.

My legs go up as I sit in my recliner, a blanket on me to keep either the draft of the a/c or the draft of warmer air from the furnace, off those legs. Drafts, of whatever temperature, give my arthritis merry hell. Elevating my legs for a while seems to help a great deal. This “rest” usually lasts a couple hours, and that’s the first time in the day David and I turn on the television.

I perform so many different tasks at my keyboard. Personal, promotional, financial. Some are necessary and some, inevitably, are not. However, I do resist going to YouTube until near the very end of my day, after our shared evening time, and as I’m having fond thoughts of my bed. Just before I begin to shut everything down, I’ll take what I intend to be only a few minutes but of course, often becomes a half hour or more, “sliding down the rabbit holes” on that very interesting site.

Sometimes I am surprised and enriched by what I discover. Last night was just such a time. There were a couple of video clips from a documentary, “David Foster: Off the Record,” that was produced in 2019.  The clips focused on the first meetings between the composer/producer and Josh Groban, and also with his fellow Canadian, Celine Dion (although she is also in the video featuring Groban).

The first video recounted the time in New York and on the eve of the Grammys when Foster called a 17-year-old Groban, who had been referred by a friend, asking him to come to the theater to rehearse The Prayer with Celine Dion—Josh was to sing in place of Andrea Bocelli, who had been held up arriving in the city. The second focused on Celine’s first meeting with Foster, and the recording of “All by Myself” – and that glorious and wonderful, impossibly high note.

Celine Dion said words to the effect that David Foster writes music that will last forever.

As the music played, the camera focused on Foster, and it was clear that he had been transported by the music back to that moment in time. Eyes closed; an air of reverence and peace settled upon him. I understood that expression and could almost feel the sense of wonder and accomplishment that an artist experiences when what had been but a concept born from creative talent becomes a reality.

Those are the kinds of moments that we who are artistic cherish. They are not everyday occurrences. Those moments that are mystical, magical, are truly rare. I’ve never experienced such a fulsome epiphany as I saw on my screen last night, but I’ve had a handful of moments that have come close.

Some people—and I pity them—believe that life, that jobs, that relationships should be all rainbows and unicorns and magic, all of the time. And I pity them because they don’t understand that those times, in whatever endeavor, both artistic and living, are not and can never be the norm. I pity them because they doom themselves to live in an eternal disappointment that is of their own making.

The rarity of the truly wondrous, the truly joyous, and blissfully happy is what makes them special. Their rarity shows us what can be and gives us the hope and the strength to carry on, knowing that if we work hard, and if we are lucky, we will also become blessed with such moments—and I promise you, that just as they are few and far between, they are so much more.

They are real. And they are the absolute signs and acknowledgements that we need that tell us that we’re on the right path. We are learning. We are growing. We are becoming.

 

Love,

Morgan

http://www.morganashbury.com

https://www.bookstrand.com/morgan-ashbury

 

 


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